You are the hero of your story

 

Perhaps our biggest mistake is waiting for others to change our lives for us.

No one will study for you and no one will work for you.

Your dreams will not come true except by your own hands.

Perhaps some will support you and some will encourage and assist you, but you will not succeed except by your own effort, so get up.

You are not "the bee's male".

Don't imagine that life will be as you want it while you sleep in your bed, drink a cup of tea, blame the world that didn't give you a chance, and wait for someone to offer you this opportunity on a silver platter.

I regret to tell you that this will not happen.

I believe that all of us have thought at some point that someone will come and appreciate our skills, intelligence, and experience, and after waiting for a long time, we realized that he/she will not come.

Waiting for the hero of our story who will change the course of our lives and take us to achieve our dreams is an early failure. We must overcome this failure quickly.

Perhaps it happens, but I believe it happens to less than 1 in a million people.

For example, if you're an artist, don't wait for someone to enter your bedroom to see your paintings.

Similarly, if you're a writer, don't expect readers to open your notebook and read your creations.

And if you're a football player, don't think Real Madrid will accidentally see you playing in front of your house.

This applies to all dreams and aspirations.

Even in love, you are the hero of your story.

Remember that well, you are the hero of your story.

The real leader is the one who can lead his life.

Plan well, think, and act immediately, don't stop, as small efforts create big successes.

Any successful person took a long time trying until they reached the success they wanted.

Time is not free, it passes and does not return.

And the second you live does not repeat.

Set intermediate goals and a big goal, and the intermediate goals will lead you to achieve your dream.

For example, we cannot learn English or any foreign language if we said our goal is to learn the language and speak fluently without setting intermediate goals to reach our big goal.

For instance, our intermediate goals for learning English should be:

Learning the basics of the language.

Developing listening skills.

Learning the rules.

Learning simple conversation.

Completing the beginner level... etc.

Setting these intermediate goals will help us reach the big goal, and the clearer we are about it and the more applicable goals we set, the more we can achieve our dream.

This applies to all our dreams and aspirations.

We need to be the heroes of our story and define our goals and the way we will reach them.

Now, it's your turn.

Write your big dream and your intermediate goals that will help you achieve it.

Remember, you are the hero of your story.

By: Maher Daboul.